Intimacy is often challenging, and sometimes uncomfortable, for anyone, but having a chronic disease like MS just adds another layer to a tough topic. According to the Multiple Sclerosis Association of America (MSAA) there are a number of things that an MS patient can think about in order to rediscover lost intimacy between themselves and their partner.
Having an intimate relationship with MS can be challenging for the patient and their partner, both physically and mentally. Having an illness can affect a person’s self-image: they may not be feeling well or they may be feeling unattractive, making it difficult for them to feel comfortable and at ease in an intimate situation.
The first step in conquering this problem is being able to accept that self-image is a problem. Everybody needs to believe that they are worthwhile in order to overcome problems with self-perception. There are support groups available for patients with MS that focus on dealing with sexuality and intimacy to help patients overcome these issues.
Symptoms of MS commonly include problems with mobility and coordination, weakness, pain, loss or change in sensation, muscle spasms and urinary symptoms — all of which can create issues with intimacy.
As with any intimacy problems, communication is key to resolving them. Problems arising from mobility issues can be overcome by finding new positions that are comfortable for both partners.
However, pain caused by MS can affect patients in different ways. Some patients suffer from an increase in sensation, meaning the slightest touch can feel painful, causing the person in pain to pull away. In an intimate situation, the partner may see this withdrawal as a sign of rejection, underlining once again the importance of communication to make sure that both partners are aware of what’s going on.
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