The benefits of having a cat while living with MS

My furry friend offers support and companionship on tough health days

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Because of the emotional and mental toll that my relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis diagnosis had on me, I wanted a cat to help me cope with and navigate life with the condition. I knew having a pet would improve my mood and give me a reason to get out of bed in the morning ā€” something I struggle with regularly because of chronic fatigue.

A few months after I received my diagnosis, the universe presented me with my best furry friend, Lucky.

Finding my furry friend

One day, near the end of July 2017, I went down the outside staircase at my momā€™s apartment to get the salad she’d brought me from Buffalo Wild Wings. As I reached the bottom of the stairs, I saw a kitten in horrible condition and exclaimed, ā€œOh, my God, a cat!ā€ When my mom saw the kitten, she instantly wanted to bring him inside, given how young and mistreated he appeared to be.

After bringing him inside, we hurried to the nearest grocery store to buy the essentials: litter, a litter box, food, treats, catnip, toys, and soap. When we got back to my momā€™s apartment, I was tasked with bathing him because he was extremely dirty. That night, we gave him space to get comfortable and accustomed to his new home.

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A young woman smiles happily while hugging to her chest a white cat with gray ears. She's wearing a long-sleeve orange shirt, and various bracelets, rings, and tattoos are visible on her hands and wrists.

Desiree Lama hugs her cat, Lucky. (Photo by Michael Anthony Lama Jr.)

The following day, we took him to the vet, who said he was severely malnourished and had fleas and ringworm. All I could think was, ā€œWho would treat a small and helpless animal in such a horrible way?ā€ At that moment, my goal was to give this little guy the best life he could possibly have.

But sadly, I was leaving for college soon, and Lucky, as we named him, had to stay with my mom, brother, and aunt.

Fast forward to my senior year of college, when I decided I wanted to live alone in a one-bedroom apartment. I asked my mom multiple times if she’d let me bring Lucky to Austin to live with me. She thought it was a good idea, since it was my first time living alone. It’s safe to say that living with Lucky was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Life and love with a pet

Personally, I’ve found many benefits to having a catĀ while living with multiple sclerosis. There have been many times when migraines got the better of me and I didnā€™t leave my bed for days, but Lucky was right there with me the entire time. Even in the moments when I can’t figure out what I’m feeling, he never leaves my side. He graces me with so much love and affection, which always makes me feel better.

We’ve had Lucky for seven years now, and he has remained one of the biggest blessings in my life. Every day I strive to give him the best life possible to thank him for all the love he’s shown me over the years. We may have saved him, but he also saved me.


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Jane Crowe avatar

Jane Crowe

Hi Desiree, I loved hearing your story about Lucky. I also have RRMS, and although everyone's experience of this crazy disease is different I understand what it's like when fatigue strikes. Sadly I can't keep a cat myself because my life is divided between South Africa and the UK and it wouldn't be fair to any pet. My solution was to write a children's book about a witch's cat that grew wings. It's given me a whole new career despite being a senior and I can enjoy being around my make-believe cat when I'm in SA (most of the year) and enjoy our granddaughter's real cat when we're in London. :-) I hope you'll share some more tales of Lucky. All good wishes to you and Lucky, Jane

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Libbie avatar

Libbie

Beautiful photo of you and Lucky!

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Jenny avatar

Jenny

What a lovely story, I so agree . And gorgeous photo of Lucky and you.

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Leanne Broughton

I have cried many times holding my dog. He's been a comfort to me.

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Karen Clipper

Agree and our golden does the same for me. Keeps me moving during the day, refocuses me away from limitations I can feel frustrated about and is a calming source of unconditional love. Cold doggie nose and all, Murphy is our joy. Thank you for your inspirational story!

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Vonetta Kelley

May I ask which salad you got? I used to get the club salad but they no longer have boiled eggs at the one I go to in Houston. Good luck to you with your Ph.D. I was ABD, until my untreated MS (due to my own denial and ignorance of the gravity of my new reality) became too disruptive for that to happen.

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Sherry Dufort

I jusy got my 2nd cat wit MS and it has helped me many times to keep me from worring about MS (dx 30 years) Ziggy my axity medicne! :)

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Marina

I'm so happy you can have a pet. I can't have pets. So I petsit. This way I can shower them with Aunty love spoil and give them back. Lol

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Lydia avatar

Lydia

Yeah right. I have 2 cats and neither will snuggle with me. They only give me attention when they want to play

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Janice bedell [email protected]

I think anyone with a mess especially if you donā€™t have a good balance and you canā€™t walk the dog outside so a cat is perfect I just lost my beloved Dora she was 16 years old and I will be looking for a new cat soon just give them lots of love and kisses

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Julia

Congrats on finding your Animal. May you have lots of happy years of spoiling him rotten ahead of you.
Last year Nero died, my little calico-cat of almost 23 years of age. She was a scrawny scruffy runt in the end. I realized half of her life she knew me healthy and half with ms. Felt like a link to that healthier self that once was, had disappeared with her.
All cats are special, i know. But she walked me to high school and waited hidden outside. She was the only one who could "passify" our malnian shepherd. Shes in the back garden now.

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