My parents are my strength while I’m living with MS

On May 10, surrounded by my loved ones, I received my Master of Arts in educational psychology from the University of Texas at Austin. As I heard the words of love and encouragement from my family and friends, I realized just how difficult my educational journey has been because of my relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis.

Advancing in academia, especially throughout my college years, has been a normal yet significant part of my life. Of course, living with MS has also been a prominent aspect. Yet until last Saturday, when I heard the comments from my loved ones, particularly my parents, I don’t think I’d fully pondered how hard it’s been and what it means to succeed in spite of the challenges.

For instance, my dad told me that I’m his hero because of my perseverance and determination in the face of MS challenges. These include MS symptoms like migraines, which are my biggest burden. He said he remembers all the times I had severe migraines but continued to go to class, study, and get everything done without complaining, which isn’t easy.

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I’d never thought of that, so I was taken aback by his comments. I suffered debilitating migraines — with excruciating pain, blurred vision, dizziness, and nausea — on so many endless days in college, yet I always felt like I had no choice but to work through it. I’d tell myself I needed to get things done, because if I didn’t, who would?

My mom has always told me that she looks up to me. She’s said that watching me battle MS has given her inspiration and courage to confront her own challenges head-on. She admires the way I’ve juggled symptoms — not just the migraines, but also bladder incontinence, body and joint pain, chronic fatigue, tremors, cognitive difficulties, mood changes, and balance issues — along with my numerous doctor appointments, medications, and uncertainties. My mom beams with joy during all of my special moments — including the big wins, the small wins, and everything in between.

Receiving my master’s degree was indeed a big win and a special moment.

After hearing my parents express their support, I realized that they’ve raised me to be a strong person. I wouldn’t be who I am if not for them. So today, after being rewarded for my academic accomplishments and accepting the credit for what I’ve earned, my parents should also take credit for being the wonderful people they are.

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