My parents are my strength while I’m living with MS
As I receive my master's degree, I see the depth and breadth of their support
On May 10, surrounded by my loved ones, I received my Master of Arts in educational psychology from the University of Texas at Austin. As I heard the words of love and encouragement from my family and friends, I realized just how difficult my educational journey has been because of my relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis.
Advancing in academia, especially throughout my college years, has been a normal yet significant part of my life. Of course, living with MS has also been a prominent aspect. Yet until last Saturday, when I heard the comments from my loved ones, particularly my parents, I don’t think I’d fully pondered how hard it’s been and what it means to succeed in spite of the challenges.
For instance, my dad told me that I’m his hero because of my perseverance and determination in the face of MS challenges. These include MS symptoms like migraines, which are my biggest burden. He said he remembers all the times I had severe migraines but continued to go to class, study, and get everything done without complaining, which isn’t easy.
I’d never thought of that, so I was taken aback by his comments. I suffered debilitating migraines — with excruciating pain, blurred vision, dizziness, and nausea — on so many endless days in college, yet I always felt like I had no choice but to work through it. I’d tell myself I needed to get things done, because if I didn’t, who would?
My mom has always told me that she looks up to me. She’s said that watching me battle MS has given her inspiration and courage to confront her own challenges head-on. She admires the way I’ve juggled symptoms — not just the migraines, but also bladder incontinence, body and joint pain, chronic fatigue, tremors, cognitive difficulties, mood changes, and balance issues — along with my numerous doctor appointments, medications, and uncertainties. My mom beams with joy during all of my special moments — including the big wins, the small wins, and everything in between.
Receiving my master’s degree was indeed a big win and a special moment.
After hearing my parents express their support, I realized that they’ve raised me to be a strong person. I wouldn’t be who I am if not for them. So today, after being rewarded for my academic accomplishments and accepting the credit for what I’ve earned, my parents should also take credit for being the wonderful people they are.
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John McCann
Congratulations Desiree on getting the masters. It is great to read a good news story like this. Thank you so much for sharing it.
Rosanne Costain
I've mentioned a number of times that having the angioplasty on my neck cleared mt brain fog, stopped the slurring of speech, and stopped the foot shuffle. What I forgot about (imagine) until I read this, was the headaches. My migraines stopped. I have an occasional headache, but, rare and not as severe. Angioplasty has helped the people I know who had it done and of course I can't make a definitive statement, i can say it has helped. I only suggest that those with MS look into it. If nothing else, perhaps, cleaning out the artery can prevent a potential stroke. I don't know it's just a suggestion.
Galen Myers
I have MS and I have A son 16.
Becca Kuehn
Desiree, Congratulations on earning your Master's degree! I know that everyone who has one has worked very hard for it. However, I know that you had to work even harder for yours because you did it while dealing with migraines, and all of the other symptoms caused by Multiple Sclerosis, plus going to the doctor's appointments. Even though I don't have the privilege of knowing you, I am extremely proud of you. Your parents must be amazing people to have raised such an extraordinary intelligent, strong and determined young woman! I know that they are definitely beyond proud of you and your accomplishments. I hope that many people of all ages, are inspired by reading this to not give up on their dreams despite what ever medical conditions they may have. Thank you very much for sharing your story of strength, determination and success with us. 💪🏼🧡
Mark Collins
Congratulations Ms Lama on your degree, what a accomplishment. Time rest and get thoughts on your path forward, you will make it. Someone with SPMS just making it one day at a time.
Brian isaac
Be strong and fight it, I was 27 and on top of the world
.my faith in Jesus has saved me and given me hope.
It have been 34 years and you could never tell...
My God is Big
James 5:14
MADELINE l NEWTON
congratulations on all of what you have accomplished while living with MS for it is very hard on us to just wake up and to function ...wow i am so proud of you ...wow having to achive this is so wonderful and it shows with the strength that others can also do this ...so many don't even try ...you are a great model for what can be done even when living with MS ...wow so proud of you ...go on and do what it is you are wanting to do ...love and much happiness ...