Creating a new normal in life with relapsing-remitting MS Creating a new normal in life with relapsing-remitting MS by BioNews Staff | March 25, 2024 Share this article: Share article via email Copy article link Rochelle waits for a virtual appointment with her doctor in 2020. (Photos courtesy of Rochelle) Day 25 of 31 This is Rochelle’s story: Iām writing this on the anniversary of āthat day.ā I was diagnosed with relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis, or RRMS, in March 2020. How fitting that I got my diagnosis right at the start of MS Awareness Month and just days before the world went into various stages of lockdown due to COVID-19. Rochelle says she gets bored easily so she changes her hair every few months.Ā As the pandemic progressed, the news was full of headlines describing a ānew normal.ā Every conversation was about the adjustments weād have to make as a society and how we’d have to create a new normal ā and there I was, wondering what normal now meant for me. As twisted as it sounds, COVID-19 was a bit of a silver lining for me. I was a workaholic, and working six or seven days a week wasn’t unusual for me. Rest? Didnāt know it. I could easily go from work to dinner to even a club, all in one day. Slow down? Ha! Stop? Never. But the world came to a stop, and I had to do the same. Because one day I woke up and couldn’t even put one foot in front of the other without falling. Or I couldn’t form words while speaking or typing (and my work as a consultant is 50% speaking and 30% typing). Or I had to slow down getting dressed because my hands couldn’t do up buttons anymore. I had to stop and ask myself, āOK, whatās next?ā Next was facing reality and acknowledging that my normal would never look the same. I would have to redefine what normal now meant for me and educate everyone in my world. The first person I had to educate was me. Rochelle notes she’s not big on smiling in photos. Now Iām a proudly reformed workaholic who defines a normal workday around my bodyās needs. Normal is not eating on the go, but eating better foods at a slower pace. Normal is trying to exercise twice a week (if my body lets me). Normal is adjusting my formerly color-coded calendar, which used to be filled with blocks defining my work and personal lives, so that itās now balanced with white space, aka time for me. Normal is giving myself grace. Normal is being patient. Normal is doing therapy to help me understand and continuously redefine what my normal is now. Normal is recognizing that nothing will ever be the same and that my normal doesnāt look like anyone elseās. Itās making adjustments on an almost daily basis and finding new ways to manage my MS. Itās being a voice and advocating for those who need a new normal themselves. I welcome my new normal ā whatever it may be today. In recognition of Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month in March, the MS Community Spotlight campaign features a series of stories highlighting the real-life experiences of people affected by MS, written in their own words. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest for more stories like this, using the hashtag #MSSpotlight, or read the full series. Print This Page About the Author BioNews Staff BioNews, the owner and publisher of this site, employs science writers and editors, most of whom have PhDs in the life sciences, as well as veteran journalists, who ensure stories are well-written and easy to understand. Our stories undergo a comprehensive fact-checking and editing process to confirm accuracy, objectiveness, and thoroughness in order to best serve our audience of patients and caregivers. Tags community spotlight
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