A Life in Letters — A Column By Jamie Hughes

August 23, 2019August 21, 2019

I Am Grateful for Everything — Even MS

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Last week, CNN’s Anderson Cooper broadcast an interview with “The Late Show” host Stephen Colbert. They had a lively discussion about comedy, politics, careers, and the like, but perhaps ... Read more

August 9, 2019August 6, 2019

Looking Forward, Looking Back

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I am now 41, at the beginning of “middle age,” and I’m tempted to give it the middle finger. It’s a halfway point, a layover, a way station — ... Read more

July 26, 2019August 22, 2019

Letting Go of Appearances in Life with MS

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Living with MS can sometimes feel like you’re performing a one-woman (or man) show. Think about it. How many times have you pretended to be OK when you didn’t ... Read more

July 12, 2019July 10, 2019

Tools May Endure, but They Need Human Hands to Realize Their Potential

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For the last two weeks or so, I’ve begun my mornings by slapping on some makeup and, with my hair in hot rollers, sitting down to read a page ... Read more

June 14, 2019June 12, 2019

How Does Your Garden Grow?

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A few weeks ago, I told you that I’d made a decision: I had to slow down. I think and talk quickly. I work quickly and drive much too ... Read more

May 17, 2019June 27, 2019

As If You Needed Another Reason to Eat Cake

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I was at a church function last Saturday, chatting with the guest speaker and her mother, and I noticed that the older woman was making several trips to the ... Read more

May 3, 2019June 18, 2019

Don’t Be a Doozer — Slow Down!

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My husband and I were driving home from church a few weeks ago, cars zipping around us every which way. He looked at me and said, “Do you ever ... Read more

April 5, 2019April 5, 2019

The Unplayable Piano

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What do a broken-down, out-of-tune piano and multiple sclerosis have in common? Well, they’re both disorderly and confusing, to say the least. But there’s something else — they have ... Read more

March 22, 2019March 20, 2019

Remember, Remember

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When I first learned that I had multiple sclerosis in late January 2004, the thing I worried about most was losing my mind. No, I’m not referring to stressing ... Read more

March 8, 2019March 7, 2019

Sometimes You Have to Skip the Whaling Chapters

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Playing Billy Beane in “Moneyball,” Brad Pitt utters the now famous line, “Adapt or die.” (Warning: The scene linked here has a few naughty words in it.) He’s referencing ... Read more

February 22, 2019March 5, 2019

The More Things Change …

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An awesome friend of mine at work who is learning to master Spanish as a second language has been using a podcast called “News in Slow Spanish” to increase ... Read more

February 8, 2019February 12, 2019

I Want to Be Alive, Rather Than Just ‘Not Dead’

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“I’m alive,” said Shadow. “I’m not dead. Remember?” “You’re not dead,” Laura said. “But I’m not sure you’re alive, either. Not really.” This snippet of a longer conversation in ... Read more

January 25, 2019January 24, 2019

‘Clean Up, Clean Up (Everybody, Everywhere)’

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I’d be lying if I said I enjoyed the endless hours of Barney I was forced to endure when I babysat kids in the 1990s, but “The Clean Up ... Read more

January 11, 2019January 8, 2019

Focus on the Flowers, Not the Weeds

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Ah, it’s a new year. And what would a new year be without a few resolutions and goals to kick it off? Rather than a set of instructions, a ... Read more

December 14, 2018December 13, 2018

Shalom and the State of My Staircase

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My eldest son, like thousands of other kids in the world, struggles in school. He’s partially deaf, and some of his challenges stem from inescapable biological factors. However, there’s ... Read more

November 30, 2018December 4, 2018

Ho-Ho-No

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Even when a major holiday isn’t scheduled in a calendar month, I’m a pretty busy lady. I work a full-time job that requires me to be present and “on” ... Read more

November 16, 2018November 28, 2018

Excelsior! Learning from the Life and Loss of Stan Lee

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Like many comic book geeks, I’ve been sitting shiva for the last few days, mourning the passing of Stan Lee. I never met the man in person, but I ... Read more

November 2, 2018November 9, 2018

Turning Information Overload into a Positive

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Books. Magazines. Journals. Emails. Online articles. Newsletters. Podcasts. Local and cable news. The quantity of information we take in daily is impressive — overwhelming, even. According to a 2009 report ... Read more

October 19, 2018October 18, 2018

Forget Me Knots

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At work a couple of weeks ago, I met a man who works with Christians in the Middle East. He is training leaders who are taking on the challenge ... Read more

October 5, 2018October 15, 2018

What the World Needs Now is Books

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After reading more than a few articles about how social media demolishes our attention span, prevents us from forming healthy real-world relationships, and causes higher-than-normal rates of depression, stress, ... Read more

September 21, 2018September 27, 2018

What the Scan Said (and What It Didn’t)

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A couple weeks ago, I went to my neurologist’s office early for my annual MRI. It’s never a pleasant experience. Even after 14 years, it’s still as unsettling as ... Read more

September 7, 2018September 12, 2018

What Happened in Vegas

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This past weekend was a busy one. My husband and I flew to Las Vegas on Saturday morning, saw a concert there Saturday night, and then flew home Sunday ... Read more

August 24, 2018August 28, 2018

H2Oh! Water Is a Brain Fuel

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Aug. 1 was a busy day around our house. Backpacks needed to be loaded up, breakfasts consumed, pictures taken, and shoes tied tightly before the bus arrived. Yes, it was ... Read more

August 10, 2018August 14, 2018

I’m Using My Status to Speak Up

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I’ve been thinking a lot about privilege in recent months — what it enables as well as what it prevents. Those who benefit from it may not be aware ... Read more

July 27, 2018August 1, 2018

What Are You Living For?

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Maybe it’s because I’ve been listening to too much Jackson Browne lately, but I’m distressed by the state of the world these days. And it’s not the big-ticket stuff ... Read more

July 13, 2018July 19, 2018

Giving Your Brain a Good Stretch

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I turned 40 this year, and it seemed like a mighty fine time to stop and take stock. After all, I’m at the midway point, and if I want ... Read more

June 29, 2018July 4, 2018

Personality Test, Smershonality Test

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Recently, I was required to take a “quick” 100-question test to determine what my Enneagram number is. (I’m a 5, in case you’re curious.) These questions — answered by ... Read more

June 15, 2018June 13, 2018

Mind Your Mind

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I don’t know about you, but oftentimes my thoughts are as unruly and irrepressible as Mickey’s broomsticks in “The Sorcerer’s Apprentice.” Whether I’m worried about the tingling in my ... Read more

June 1, 2018June 26, 2018

How Dare You?

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If you read my last column, you’re well aware that there has been some drama around Casa de Hughes over the last few weeks. I can now happily say ... Read more

May 18, 2018May 18, 2018

When the Bomb Goes Off

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It’s easy to be lulled into a false sense of security, to think you’re the supreme authority in your life. And when that ersatz truth is ripped away, as ... Read more

May 4, 2018May 4, 2018

I Am So Much More than My MS

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Every personality test and trait indicator quiz I take tells me the same thing: I’m a polymath. Basically, it’s a fancy Greek word meaning “a person of wide-ranging knowledge ... Read more

April 20, 2018April 20, 2018

A Look Around the Terminal

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It’s spring — at least, it’s supposed to be — so getting stuck at the airport due to snow was the last thing I expected during a recent trip ... Read more

April 6, 2018April 5, 2018

You Only Think You Know

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When I tell people I have multiple sclerosis, I usually get one of three responses: • “Oh, no! I feel so bad for you!” (Pity) • “Is that the ... Read more

March 16, 2018March 15, 2018

Just Do It

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Mary Schmich, a columnist for the Chicago Tribune, wrote a 1997 essay aimed at graduates. In it, she shared many practical nuggets of wisdom such as “Floss,” and thoughts like, ... Read more

March 2, 2018March 2, 2018

Up with the Volume, Down with the Noise

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Mahatma Gandhi once said, “There is more to life than increasing its speed.” That’s not a lesson modern American culture has taken to heart, is it? Seems like we’re ... Read more

February 2, 2018February 1, 2018

Rest on the Water: A Flirtation with Flotation to Find Silence

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I’m currently working on an essay about the power of silence. And, in the process of planning this thing, I realized I don’t do so well with it — ... Read more

January 19, 2018January 19, 2018

Chicken Soup Has Super Powers

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Get plenty of rest. Drink lots of warm fluids. Use a humidifier. Gargle and flush your sinuses with warm salt water. Blow your nose early and often. Take over-the-counter ... Read more

January 5, 2018January 4, 2018

We Are Streams that Sing

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Wendell Berry, a novelist, poet, farmer and environmental activist, has written a number of superb books. Don’t believe me? Go read “Jayber Crow” and shoot me a message. I ... Read more

December 15, 2017December 15, 2017

The Greatest Gifts

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Christmas is just around the corner, and that’s why many people are on the fruitless quest for Fingerlings or hocking an organ to buy the new iPhone. Both might ... Read more

December 1, 2017December 1, 2017

Holding ‘Space’ for Others

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  When a friend or loved one is going through a tough time, it’s hard to know how best to help. Do you help carry the burden? Would it ... Read more