It’s Only a Matter of Time

It’s Only a Matter of Time
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There was a time when I didn’t have deadlines. I’d finally finished academia. No more essays ever!

In theory, I still had seven essays to write. Luckily, those essays could only improve my grade, so I got away with it. But only to a degree. I just scraped by with honors, but hey, now I could legitimately put a BA after my name. Of course, no one does that unless you work in legal, finance, or dentistry!

I knew I’d never use it. My degree was in economics, and there was no chance of me employing (finally a Keynesian pun!) a subject I discovered I hated too late. I didn’t know where I was headed, but it certainly wasn’t the world of economics.

What a breeze with nothing hanging over me! No constant gray cloud of intermittent drizzle.

It was fun for a while, but weirdly, I began to miss the deadlines. I solved that by becoming a journalist. I’ve also worked as a TV casting director and a comedy producer. Now MS has brought me full circle by writing for this very prestigious organization. (I’m also a forums moderator at Multiple Sclerosis News Today Forums.)

I have deadlines aplenty. But MS saps time like nothing I’ve confronted before.

Refill the stapler? That will take one hour, sir. I could ask someone to do it for me, sure, but that feels like giving in. I only relent if I can’t find a way around it.

Some things are just ridiculous, though. For example, an eight-hour bathroom break! (OK, once it was 12 hours, but that is another story.) It’s in no way exciting, so I’ll endeavor to be brief.

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Water way to spend oodles of time. (Photo by John Connor)

MS causes so many problems, and dealing with one leads to another. At some point, these problems coalesce. In my case, they coalesce when I shower.

It’s not as bad as it was a few years ago when my shower ate me. Now I have a perfectly adapted bathroom, but combating aspects of MS still consume my time.

To deal with lymphedema, I wear constricting stockings overlaid by constricting bandages. Putting on the stockings is like wrestling angry pythons while the bandages mock my weak and restricted right arm. My able-bodied wife also finds them nearly impossible!

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I’m too disabled for wrap! (Photo by John Connor)

Putting them on and taking them off is hours of work!

Therapists blithely say things like, “Take them off at night!” Well, that would mean getting out of bed and putting them on, grabbing some breakfast or brunch, and taking them off again before going to bed.

That was a fun day!

A Peristeen anal irrigation system adds at least two hours to my bathroom routine. With a few months of practice, I can now manage it in a tad over an hour. Throw in shaving, actually having a shower, and the time necessary to recover from fatigue, and there you go — eight hours.

I said I’d be brief! But that’s MS for you.

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‘In 1982 John Connor was a stand up, sketch writer & journalist – crap at all three he decided whilst watching a man performing with a paper bag on his head that as nobody else was going to write about stand up he would’. ‘Comics’ Papermac 1990. In 2009 John Connor was diagnosed with MS. In 2017 John Connor still produces/directs his own live 27 year old resident topical comedy show at London’s Comedy Store – ‘The Cutting Edge’. He was also a leading UK Casting Director specialising in comedy – including one of the hippest shows ‘Black Books’ [double BAFTA winning Situation Comedy Award] & for at least a decade the biggest sitcom on British TV ‘My Family’. TV & MS was a step too far – and we know how hard any step can be. Luckily his satirical show was a built in part time job & with the election of Trump is now in the zeitgeist. John now writes “Fall Down Get Up Again” – an irreverent journey with MS.
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‘In 1982 John Connor was a stand up, sketch writer & journalist – crap at all three he decided whilst watching a man performing with a paper bag on his head that as nobody else was going to write about stand up he would’. ‘Comics’ Papermac 1990. In 2009 John Connor was diagnosed with MS. In 2017 John Connor still produces/directs his own live 27 year old resident topical comedy show at London’s Comedy Store – ‘The Cutting Edge’. He was also a leading UK Casting Director specialising in comedy – including one of the hippest shows ‘Black Books’ [double BAFTA winning Situation Comedy Award] & for at least a decade the biggest sitcom on British TV ‘My Family’. TV & MS was a step too far – and we know how hard any step can be. Luckily his satirical show was a built in part time job & with the election of Trump is now in the zeitgeist. John now writes “Fall Down Get Up Again” – an irreverent journey with MS.

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3 comments

  1. Alex chesser says:

    Interesting story. It touches home as I am a 30 year old male with very aggressive ms that does stand up comedy. Ms has negatively impacted my life in so many ways, but I gotta say that it has made me stronger and a better person in a lot of ways. Maybe I am lucky or just beginning my journey but watch out for me in comedy cuz i’m coming

    • I know exactly what you mean about comedy it’s the only thing that keeps me sane with my MS. I tell everyone when I fall I’m okay because I bounce and that’s why I stay and the heavy side!¡I get a lot of laughs and people tell me I have a good outlook!! Keeping people laughing at you will help it does me!¡Good luck with your journey¡!

  2. Elizabeth Brenban says:

    Ridiculous is a perfect word to describe life with MS. Thank God for my friends and family who can see the episodes of ridiculousness. Laughter is the best medicine. 😊🎯✔️

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