MS Is Like Having a Winning Ticket to a Club You Never Wanted to Join

Recently, I was given the exceptional honor of finding stories for MS News Today‘s upcoming “31 days of MS“ initiative. I loved the challenge, and used it as an opportunity to catch up with friends I’ve met over the years while doing the “DISabled to ENabled” podcast or at various events. Somewhere along the way, I seem to have learned something. 

By reading each story sent to me, I realized how different we all are. MS doesn’t come with a one-size-fits-all approach. Our experiences are different, and our symptoms vary, as do our medications.

Even if one piece of your story is similar to someone else’s, you’ll never find someone who is a direct copy of you. We are what is known as “snowflakes,” an exceptional thing. MS makes us all truly unique. It is the basic thing that unites us as a community. 

I love meeting other people with MS. It’s so interesting to hear how different each experience is, such as the reactions from a person’s friends or family members, how someone copes, or how they thrive. I enjoy hearing about how people fight back against their disease, or when they do something extraordinary like setting up a charity or running a marathon. 

Weirdly, MS is like having the winning golden ticket to an exclusive club you never wanted to join, but where you are happy to hang out because the people are friendly. 

Hearing stories about the strange symptoms people have makes me feel “normal,” because it allows me to feel like I’m not alone. This is especially true when family members and friends who don’t have an illness look at us like we have six eyes and a tentacle when we tell them that nonexistent ants are crawling all over our skin. 

When people around you understand, it feels so much easier. 

It’s a strange connector. I have met so many celebrities through various MS events, and talking to them about their experiences is extraordinary. They often have similar fears and concerns as we “normal” people do. Imagine having those fears amplified until the entire world knew your every move. I can’t say I envy them!

As I look around during those events, I’ll see people tripping over air, messing up their words, using walking aids, and repeatedly going to the bathroom. I suddenly feel super normal. I feel at home. These people are my family. 

They possess unique qualities like patience, calmness, and acceptance, which many others seem not to have. 

Yes, having chronic illness totally sucks. But together, we are impressive and can get through anything.

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