Time, Stress and MS: When Saying ‘No’ is Good for Your Health

Time, Stress and MS: When Saying ‘No’ is Good for Your Health

Patiently Awakened

Time. We all know it is important. Time is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as “the indefinite continued progress of existence and events in the past, present and future regarded as a whole.” In simple terms, time is life in a series of moments. Regardless of what is happening in our lives time is constant. Once a moment has passed, it is gone forever.

Chronic Illness certainly will cause one to consider time. We look back on the past, live in the present and wonder about the future. We experience both excitement and angst. Personally, staying engaged and serving others have been beneficial. It has, at times, led me out of dark places. In addition, I am discovering that self-care is is paramount. Self-care requires me to rest my mind and body.

I am diligent in character and my heart is in everything I do. As a result, I am asked to participate in various things and I have a tendency to “spread myself thin.” I often state that I am stressed out. As a heart health advocate and a person with chronic illness, I am well aware that stress is detrimental to my overall health. I have had numerous loved ones and friends tell me to take it easy or just say “no.” I must publicly proclaim they are right.

There are moments when I feel as if I am racing against time. I believe there are many of us who occupy this position. We feel that time is of the essence and it’s now or never. I tell myself that I must do what I can while I can. In acknowledging there is some truth to this statement, I also must confess that I cannot do it all. I am overwhelmed and sometimes feel as if I am losing ground. Fear comes rushing in as I think MS is usurping my cognitive ability and physical agility. In order for me to remember dates and activities, they must be written down. I am misplacing or losing things, all while my mind is going 1,000 miles a minute. Physically, I am beyond exhausted.

Today I had an epiphany. It was my “aha” moment and it came in the midst of a temporary personal crisis. I concede that I must slow down. It is my responsibility to determine how I invest my time and my sustenance depends on these decisions.

Time is valuable and I encourage you to use it wisely. I am reaching out to those who may be struggling with the “yes syndrome.” I am reaching out to those who feel they are running out of time. I am reaching out to those who will give until depletion. At times, saying “no” is good for your health. We cannot pour from an empty cup.

MS and chronic illness are stressful enough. We must try to alleviate outside sources of stress and pressure when possible. Time will keep moving, with or without us. Self-preservation is key.

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Teresa I. Wright-Johnson is a married Multiple Sclerosis Warrior and Congenital Heart Disease Survivor. She was born with a heart murmur and an Aortic Valve Defect. Teresa has endured multiple open heart surgeries and cardiac procedures. She was diagnosed with MS in November of 2014 and is under the care of an esteemed MS Specialist. Teresa knows there is a calling on her life and she fully embraces that. Teresa uses her illnesses as opportunities to further rely on her faith, walk in her truth, raise awareness and educate others. She believes that she is purposely on purpose. Teresa offers a solid background in Criminal Justice and Social Services. A graduate of Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ and a retired Sr. Parole Officer for the State of New Jersey, Teresa uses her life to empower and inspire others. She embodies community service, is a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc and is active with several other organizations. Teresa aspires to be a light that shines in dark places. Teresa is an author, poet, inspirational speaker and a community activist. She enjoys writing, reading, listening to music and spending time with her family and friends. Teresa acknowledges the unwavering love of her wonderful parents throughout her life and her supportive and loving husband Marvin who is beside her through every trial and triumph.
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Teresa I. Wright-Johnson is a married Multiple Sclerosis Warrior and Congenital Heart Disease Survivor. She was born with a heart murmur and an Aortic Valve Defect. Teresa has endured multiple open heart surgeries and cardiac procedures. She was diagnosed with MS in November of 2014 and is under the care of an esteemed MS Specialist. Teresa knows there is a calling on her life and she fully embraces that. Teresa uses her illnesses as opportunities to further rely on her faith, walk in her truth, raise awareness and educate others. She believes that she is purposely on purpose. Teresa offers a solid background in Criminal Justice and Social Services. A graduate of Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ and a retired Sr. Parole Officer for the State of New Jersey, Teresa uses her life to empower and inspire others. She embodies community service, is a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc and is active with several other organizations. Teresa aspires to be a light that shines in dark places. Teresa is an author, poet, inspirational speaker and a community activist. She enjoys writing, reading, listening to music and spending time with her family and friends. Teresa acknowledges the unwavering love of her wonderful parents throughout her life and her supportive and loving husband Marvin who is beside her through every trial and triumph.

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