Losing Words Through Dysarthria Is Hard for This Word Nerd

Losing Words Through Dysarthria Is Hard for This Word Nerd

Jennifer Silver Linings

I have always prided myself on my smarts. I excelled in college, where I realized my love for learning. I enjoy conversing with others, and I make a concerted effort to expand my horizons.

I have never shied away from an opportunity to make another’s acquaintance. Be it current events, literature, or travel, I am quite adept at holding my own. That said, I have noticed myself having great difficulty culling facts and finding the right words. I am unable to articulate intelligibly and my speed of speech has slowed considerably. What does come out is a poor representation of my thought process.

Some people with multiple sclerosis may develop a speech impediment, as neuromuscular atrophy associated with demyelination can cause dysarthria. Many with dysarthria slur or stutter and can have difficulty with enunciation, articulation, and flow.

Dysphonia often accompanies dysarthria and the two are easily confused. Dysphonia refers more to volume, resonance, and tone quality. Dysarthria and dysphonia can coexist.

I developed dysarthria shortly before new and active lesions were found. I originally attributed my wonky speech to fatigue or medication. Unfortunately, it was due to progression. As a self-described word nerd and someone who relies on her vocabulary to write, this was devastating. I still find it incredibly frustrating and will often shy away from conversations I once thrived on having.

I am embarrassed. I feel not-so-smart.

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Witnessing the deterioration of my most prided trait has been humbling. I precisely envision what I want to communicate, yet something completely different emerges. I see the sympathetic look in others’ eyes as I try in vain to find my words. As the seconds tick by, I often will just laugh and admit defeat in an effort to disguise my chagrin.

There is a myriad of therapies available. Speech, swallow, and vocal therapists can help you strengthen what you do have. Like any body part, it is imperative to revive the movement to reduce further atrophy. Additionally, breath control can help give you the stamina necessary to speak with more fluidity. Speak with your neurologist about potential therapies for your specific needs.

I just answered the telephone and attempted to say good morning. What came out was the equivalent to an animal in pain. They hung up. I laughed. Hey, maybe I inadvertently turned away a solicitor for good?

I have learned the importance of good-natured, self-deprecating humor. There is so much seriousness in living life with MS, so never refuse an invitation to laugh. I promise that no matter how it comes out, you will find others smiling.

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14 comments

  1. Megan Clarkson says:

    This began as word retrieval difficulty for me. I have a huge word bank, was always very articulate in speaking, listening, processing and writing. Then the thick bullet proof glass dropped! I could see the words but couldn’t touch or speak them
    Devestating! I have developed my own “work arounds”, humor is crucial. As is sharing with others “the newest gift MS has delivered is …”
    People now wait for a clue from me as to what help I need or want from them.

  2. D.G. says:

    Bless your heart, Jennifer! I can relate in that I’ve recently went through an episode of aspiration bronchitis/pneumonia since I forgot how to swallow vs. breath At just the WRONG moment. My primary problem is forgetting words at the most inopportune time! No way to pay homage to those ruler- toting nuns who drilled PhD level vocabulary into me at age 7! LOL Thank you for your article and the inspiration it gave me! BTW, if my reading speed continues to get slower, even “See Jane run.” is going to be too much.

  3. Jessie says:

    Hi, thanks for explaining this. I have major word finding issues, but I think all us MS folks do. I was diagnosed 16 years ago.
    Have you heard of writing problems? I for the most part can’t write with a pen or pencil, my neurologists have ignored it when I ask.

    • Gwendolyn E Mugliston, PHD, DVM MSN says:

      Yes, my writing is almost unintelligible but my typing remains fairly decent. I cannot use the typing pads in cell phones because my fingers stutter. A large keyboard is most helpful and that is exactly how I communicate with people not in my house.

      • Getty Bailey says:

        When I lost the ability to hold a pen or to even type, I began using voice activated software on my computer. I also use an ink stamp with my signature in it. I use that on checks and anything that requires a signature. I have one home care aide who has mastered my signature on those computer pads at the grocery store and the doctor’s office. If my voice goes away or changes dramatically, well I guess I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.

  4. Karen says:

    Oh, dear, our words sure are an important part of us. After 10 years with MS, my latest problem is that the words don’t come out at all. Not because I don’t know what I want to say, but because my brain just cannot find the particular word hidden away and bring it to my tongue.
    As someone with a PhD in Mathematics Education, this afternoon I could not tell my therapist that I wanted to come for a massage. My brain could not find the word ‘massage’! Luckily she knew what I wanted to say. I just laughed it off, but it sure feels ridiculous…

  5. BELINDA J MATTOS says:

    Jennifer, I definitely can relate to your experience. You told my story. Ever since I was diagnosed (at the age of 52, over 10 years ago), I prayed that this disease would not rob me of my intellect and ability to communicate. In the past two years, after I retired, I’ve experienced a decline in my ability to recall information and articulate during conversations. As you described, it is frustrating. So, I also attempt to hide my embarrassment with self-deprecating humor. I am scheduled for a cognitive reassessment in March, and I hope to find neuropsych therapy to help stop this regression. So, from one word nerd to another, keep the faith!!

  6. Katie Tremper says:

    Thank you, Jennifer, for this post. I have worked in education for 32 years, and have always been known for my intellect, vocabulary, and analytical skills. While I know most of it is “still there”, the substantial decrease in cognitive processing speed, word retrieval problems, and increase in cognitive fatigue has impacted my life significantly. I agree that humor, along with equanimity, can make a big difference. So can sharing one’s experience….thanks!

  7. Glenda Hendry says:

    My vocabulary included lots of medical terminology as a bachelors-prepared nurse. I can relate to the disappointment of losing that perfect word that was in my brain, but no longer exists for me.

  8. Jodie says:

    Thank you so much for sharing. This really made me giggle. I once told a work colleague that the table needed restarting. Unsurprisingly he looked confused!! Then I couldn’t remember the word I actually wanted, so I wasn’t able to clear up the confusion until he asked “computer?” I think he thought I was probably drunk.

    As you say, it’s good to have a giggle about it. My memory of his look of pure confusion still makes me laugh 🙂

    Sending you positive thoughts,
    Jodie.

  9. Elizabetta says:

    Thank you for sharing this. I almost cancelled going to Thanksgiving today for fear of being unable to hold up my end of a conversation. I have a newfound appreciation for listening and getting to know others — even though I seem to forget most of it, including their names, by the time I see them again. Ugh. Happy Thanksgiving

  10. Gwendolyn E Mugliston, PHD, DVM MSN says:

    I, too, must use humor to deflect inappropriate concern or just plain avoidance when my mental word search leaves me grasping desperately for an ‘equivalent’ word. I do far better typing what I need and I am not sure why that is, exactly. Word loss is an attribute of people with dementia and that is always what people assume I have. I don’t actually care what they think but it does silence me quite effectively because I am clearly not communicating. It is frustrating.
    I find place names and names of people to be most frustrating. “You know, that guy with the beard” just doesn’t cut it when so many men have a beard and his real name was simply “Joe”.
    I am taking a new drug (to me), Ampyra (dalfampridine, a potassium channel blocker), to facilitate my ability to walk. It has a side effect not noted in the accompanying literature of helping my disarthria. I have no idea why. I am grateful, however.

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