MS Is a Rare Disease? I Think Not

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Feb. 29 is Rare Disease Day. It’s a day on which those in the rare disease community attempt to raise awareness about their diseases. I don’t think MS should be included.

With about 2.5 million people worldwide in the MS community, I don’t consider it to be rare. When I was working in a newsroom of about 100 people, three of us had MS. And everyone seems to know someone with MS. It is rare, however, when I find someone who understands what it is all about. I think that what we need is an Invisible Disease Day.

My Invisible Disease Day would be aimed at all the people who have told me, “But you look great,” over the nearly 40 years that I’ve lived with MS. It would be directed to those who believe that MS fatigue is no worse than their tough, tiring days at the office. And to those who are under the impression that MS is a death sentence.

I’d also include people who have a friend with MS and tell us that “he doesn’t have the problems you have.” And of course, I’d need to include the ones who think Jerry Lewis used to host a telethon every Labor Day to benefit people with MS.Ā 

Things to know about our invisible disease

I’d tell these people that I may look great, but I may have to hunt for a simple word in mid-sentence. I may look great because I have a tan and I exercise, but I may pay a price for that because heat can be my enemy. So can cold.

I’d tell them that when it hits, MS fatigue is like a ton of bricks. It can keep some of us from attending a family gathering or taking in a movie. At its worst, it can keep someone from being able to hold a full-time job ā€” or to work at all.

I’d tell people that far from being a death sentence, the average life expectancy of someone with MS is only a few years less than average. And I’d tell everyone who has a friend with MS that our disease treats each of us differently.

Those are some of our invisible symptoms. My trouble walking and my occasional need to rush to the bathroom don’t need a special day to highlight them.

As for the Labor Day telethon, Jerry Lewis hosted one for many years for muscular dystrophy, not MS.

There’s a week for that

As it turns out, I don’t need to create an Invisible Disease Day. There’s already an Invisible Disabilities Week in October. I’ll remind you about my invisible disease then. Or you can learn more about it now if you visit my personal blog at www.themswire.com.

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Mark Collins avatar

Mark Collins

Past time to kill ebv in the human body

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Leanne Broughton avatar

Leanne Broughton

A rare disease to some people who do not know what MS is. When I was first diagnosed in 1998 stats said 1 in 1000 people may contract MS. It is now 2 in 500 people. Hardly rare is it?

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Helen avatar

Helen

Yeah, once I was diagnosed, it became common to hear about others I knew, or their immediate relatives, who also have MS. Another refreshing piece of knowledge was when I stumbled onto articles about famous individuals who have MS. They are in all industries-racing, music, journalism. I relate to his comment about it not being a death-sentence. I haven't told most of my acquaintances or inner circle about it, because of the idea that I would then be treated like I'm already dead. I'm not, I just have some challenges. So I tell them that my leg problems are permanent but that I'm getting P.T. and leave it at that.

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Ed Tobias avatar

Ed Tobias

Hi Helen,

Permanent problems but working on limiting them (with PT) sounds like an excellent response.

Ed

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John Connor avatar

John Connor

Sorry Ed trying to leave 5 stars, but it stopped me on one! Still this is what I was going to write about this week...... the trouble for me is that I'm in total agreement!

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Ed Tobias avatar

Ed Tobias

I'm not starry-eyed, John. One is just fine.

Ed

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