Calm, Care, and Prayer Will Help During the Coronavirus Crisis

Calm, Care, and Prayer Will Help During the Coronavirus Crisis
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No one needs to be reminded of the pandemic we’re in the midst of. We live it every day. The novel coronavirus has attacked with a vengeance, proving that no one is safe from its ruins.

The actuality of being quarantined and the practice of social distancing have resulted in the hoarding of toilet paper, cleaning supplies, and food. The upsurge in the number of people contracting the virus, declining in health, or passing away is a sobering verity.

The hysteria surrounding the virus is extreme, and most of us are stressed out. We are on high alert, which adds to the anxiety experienced by many of us with multiple sclerosis and other chronic illnesses. The intent of this week’s column is to encourage you to remain calm and be careful.

This is undeniably a catastrophic time in our nation. Social distancing has many feeling isolated and overwhelmed. We are instructed to remain in our homes to protect ourselves and others. Our communities are struggling with depression and displacement. Every aspect of our lives, from the economy to the healthcare system, is compromised.

We are cognizant of what is lacking. As people living with MS and chronic illness, we are vigilant in using caution with our care. Compromised immune systems render us human petri dishes to bacteria and viruses.

Many of the self-care, safety precautions, and prevention protocols are already practiced in our communities. Hand washing, sanitizing, and disinfecting are the norm. Staying in when we are ill or requesting that others stay away when they are ill are common practice. However, we know that not everyone follows directions.

Lack of control and fear of the unknown can quickly spiral me into bouts of anxiety. Days ago, I experienced a panic attack. At that moment, I had a “sole session” (pun intended). I cautioned myself to recollect the ruinous effects of fear and anxiety. Both lower immune response and pilfer peace and serenity from my existence. I resolved that much of this pandemic is beyond my mastery.

I would like to share with you a few techniques that help me manage fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. Just as the manifestation of our illnesses and symptoms are different, so are our coping mechanisms. Please take what you need.

Being intentional with information outlets

Listening to the news all day, every day is triggering. I acknowledge that staying informed is a necessity, but it also can be excessive and contribute to feelings of depression. Social media outlets sometimes propel hysteria. I listen to the medical professionals, take the proper precautions to ensure my safety, and disconnect from television and social media when I feel overwhelmed.

Staying connected

An extrovert and socialite by nature, I like to converse and congregate with people. Hearing the term social distancing increased my mental anguish. I have since resolved that social distancing is not isolation. Maintaining relationships extends far beyond physical interactions. Utilizing various methods to communicate with our circles and communities via phone and computer apps such as FaceTime, Skype, Zoom, etc. allows virtual communication without endangering safety.

Time management

My mind is like the Energizer Bunny. It goes and goes and goes. There is always something to do and not enough time to complete the desired tasks. Social distancing has allotted the time to focus and complete some of the items on my to-do list. I have spent a considerable amount of time organizing and purging clutter. Feeling accomplished, I am happy to have the time to begin — and hopefully complete — more of my projects.

Pep talks and affirmations

Telling myself “I can do this” encourages me. I have survived obstacles I never would have imagined. Still, I stand. Perseverance and resilience are my superpowers.

Prayer

I am a believer. Prayer changes things, including anxiety, and it sustains me.

This will be one of the most difficult times of our lives. Life as we know it has changed. COVID-19 again reminds me of the fragility of life, how quickly things can change, and how interconnected we are.

Acknowledging that our actions have a domino effect is an awakening truth. It is my belief that we will emerge stronger, wiser, and united. My wish is that you stay safe and that you savor the beauty of time amid the chaos.

You are invited to follow my website at www.teresawrightjohnson.com.

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Teresa I. Wright-Johnson is a married Multiple Sclerosis Warrior and Congenital Heart Disease Survivor. She was born with a heart murmur and an Aortic Valve Defect. Teresa has endured multiple open heart surgeries and cardiac procedures. She was diagnosed with MS in November of 2014 and is under the care of an esteemed MS Specialist. Teresa knows there is a calling on her life and she fully embraces that. Teresa uses her illnesses as opportunities to further rely on her faith, walk in her truth, raise awareness and educate others. She believes that she is purposely on purpose. Teresa offers a solid background in Criminal Justice and Social Services. A graduate of Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ and a retired Sr. Parole Officer for the State of New Jersey, Teresa uses her life to empower and inspire others. She embodies community service, is a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc and is active with several other organizations. Teresa aspires to be a light that shines in dark places. Teresa is an author, poet, inspirational speaker and a community activist. She enjoys writing, reading, listening to music and spending time with her family and friends. Teresa acknowledges the unwavering love of her wonderful parents throughout her life and her supportive and loving husband Marvin who is beside her through every trial and triumph.
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Teresa I. Wright-Johnson is a married Multiple Sclerosis Warrior and Congenital Heart Disease Survivor. She was born with a heart murmur and an Aortic Valve Defect. Teresa has endured multiple open heart surgeries and cardiac procedures. She was diagnosed with MS in November of 2014 and is under the care of an esteemed MS Specialist. Teresa knows there is a calling on her life and she fully embraces that. Teresa uses her illnesses as opportunities to further rely on her faith, walk in her truth, raise awareness and educate others. She believes that she is purposely on purpose. Teresa offers a solid background in Criminal Justice and Social Services. A graduate of Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ and a retired Sr. Parole Officer for the State of New Jersey, Teresa uses her life to empower and inspire others. She embodies community service, is a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc and is active with several other organizations. Teresa aspires to be a light that shines in dark places. Teresa is an author, poet, inspirational speaker and a community activist. She enjoys writing, reading, listening to music and spending time with her family and friends. Teresa acknowledges the unwavering love of her wonderful parents throughout her life and her supportive and loving husband Marvin who is beside her through every trial and triumph.

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2 comments

  1. Sharath says:

    You say you’re a believer. No discussion.

    I’m concerned of the title of the essay you’ve written.

    Instead of ‘..will..’, ‘..may..’ would’ve been better – for atheists like me.

    My two cents. 🙂

  2. Amanda Baker says:

    I am on the committee for our local Heartbeat Chapter, which is a support group for Survivors of Suicide Loss. My husband and I lost our son to suicide in 2016. He was 17. I had already been diagnosed with MS in 1997. The stress from the loss took its toll on my health. Now the stress from Covid-19 is doing the same. However, I have found that focusing my energy and thoughts on our support group is helping. I have been emailing to over 100 members of our group and calling others that don’t use online technology. Focusing on others takes a lot of the stress away from me.

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