Columns Chairborne - A Column by Ben Hofmeister The responsibility for raising MS awareness goes both ways The responsibility for raising MS awareness goes both ways For Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month in March, let's help others understand by Benjamin Hofmeister | March 2, 2023 Share this article: Share article via email Copy article link Every once in a while, I wake up prepared to swing my legs over the side of the bed and get moving. That sleep-induced forgetfulness evaporates as soon as the reality of multiple sclerosis (MS) reminds me that I canāt swing anything. I suppose I should be grateful that uncooperative limbs keep me from throwing myself into a surprised heap beside the bed, but I’m not. Aside from that occasional waking one, there isn’t a moment when I’m not aware that I have MS ā and itās hard to be grateful for that. What does “being aware” mean anyway? Even before I was diagnosed with MS, I was aware that it existed, as is anyone with the capability of seeing pharmaceutical advertisements on television. However, I’m coming to realize that being aware, or raising awareness of multiple sclerosis, means more than just that. Sure, it’s about letting people know it exists, but I like the idea that it also means drawing attention to life with the disease. With that in mind, and since March is Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month, I’d like to share a few things I’d like people to be aware of. Recommended Reading January 10, 2023 News by Joana Vindeirinho, PhD Lifestyle Changes to Increase Physical Activity Improved MS Fatigue We’re all unique Be aware that multiple sclerosis isn’t a one-size-fits-all disease. Besides the different types of MS, each person with the disease has their own unique course and experience. You might know someone with it who is out rock climbing every weekend. I say do what you can while you can, so I’m genuinely happy for them, but I canāt do it. That doesnāt mean I’m not trying hard enough. It’s just that my MS isnāt their MS or anyone else’s. Our symptoms, level of disability, workarounds, and treatments are as varied as our disease courses. From one day to the next Be aware that MS is predictably unpredictable. I have good days (mere hours sometimes) and bad ones. I donāt know how I’ll feel tomorrow, much less next month when we’re scheduled to meet up. Please understand that I’ll do my best to be there, but my abilities most likely won’t be exactly the same as they were the last time we met. They might be better ā but probably not. MS isnāt usually that considerate, although it does allow me to be completely honest for once when I say, “Itās not you, it’s me.” Be aware that even if it’s a good day, people with MS have only so much energy, and it never seems to be the same amount from one day to the next. Yes, I know that I was able to do “that” yesterday and therefore I should logically be able to do it today, too, but logic and MS do not always go hand in hand. Be aware that some of that energy is spent on emotional resilience, too. I really am content, but I canāt smile every day. It’s not my intention to make being aware of my MS read like the equivalent of a “Handle With Care” sign. I want to draw attention to my reality, not make a list of variable cautions. Maybe this (and every) month, I’m the one who needs to be aware that much of that responsibility lies with me. I’ll do my best, but in the meantime, could someone invent a sort of multiple sclerosis mood ring? Note:Ā Multiple Sclerosis News TodayĀ is strictly a news and information website about the disease. It does not provide medical advice,Ā diagnosis, orĀ treatment. This content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice,Ā diagnosis, orĀ treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website. The opinions expressed in this column are not those ofĀ Multiple Sclerosis News TodayĀ or its parent company, BioNews, and are intended to spark discussion about issues pertaining to multiple sclerosis. Print This Page About the Author Benjamin Hofmeister Ben Hofmeister was diagnosed with primary progressive multiple sclerosis in 2014, ending a 22-year career in the U.S. Army, as both a Ranger and Green Beret. He gradually settled into a wonderful retired life in Anniston, Alabama, with his wife and their three boys. He couldnāt be happier. After being inspired by the writing of others with MS, he decided to add his own voice. His column is raw and honest, but sometimes sarcastic and pithy too. MS is a serious disease but a life with it doesnāt always have to be. Tags March, Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month Comments Leave a comment Fill in the required fields to post. Your email address will not be published. Your Name Your Email Your Comment Post Comment
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