How I kept going after a discouraging diagnosis of MS

Let me introduce myself: I’m Mike, and if you don’t mind, I’d like to share my story.

I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) in August 2022. Since then, a lot has changed, including the loss of a 20-year career, worsening mobility problems, and the start of a new treatment, to name a few. Through it all, new horizons have appeared for me, including making fantastic friends and learning novel ways to stay positive.

In this column, I’ll touch on some of the things that help me be the person I want to be.

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Fighting the negativity

An earlier series I wrote about jumping from an airplane offers clues to how I keep moving forward, despite my MS challenges. I find that having something challenging to look forward to is a way to fight the negativity MS can cause. The skydiving trip was an opportunity to try something new while raising money for the battle against MS.

I am very passionate about fundraising for MS charities. Since my diagnosis, I’ve taken part in two 5K walks (or in my case, rolling in a wheelchair) around London, and a 28-day activity challenge in which I motivated myself to be active for at least 28 minutes a day for about a month. And, as I mentioned, I jumped out of a plane. A motivating factor in all of this is to give back to the MS community and help to find that elusive cure.

I also had to find new creative outlets. One of my favorites is gardening, which allows me to be outdoors and create new things. It’s rewarding to see the new shapes and colors of the plants. While the actual work of gardening is physically hard to do, it helps me stay active and is beneficial to my mental health.

Mobility issues have prevented me from doing a lot physically, but I’ve found other things, such as podcasting, being active on social media, writing poetry, and learning to play the guitar.

MS community support

Before I was even diagnosed, a medical professional had recommended that I seek out MS support groups online. At that point, I knew very little about the condition, so the advice and insight I gleaned were gratefully accepted.

Later, I joined social media to get my story out publicly with the hope that it would be useful to others. That turned out to be the best decision I’ve made. Not only was it helpful to others, but also to myself.

The compassion, empathy, and care I’ve found in the online MS community is incredible. Talking to people around the world seems no different than conversing with a friend I’ve known for years. This support has been instrumental in helping me find ways to cope.

From early on in my health journey, talking openly and honestly has helped me understand this new chapter of my life and adjust to it.

Three pillars of my outlook now are finding new ways to look at life, thinking about the future, and setting goals.

MS takes a lot from us, but making new friends and creating new hobbies have been a shining light that has illuminated a positive path forward. Yes, I have MS, but MS doesn’t have me.

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