MS cognitive fog is one of the most challenging symptoms I face

How I'm finding effective ways to cope and maintain my quality of life

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The balance issues associated with my multiple sclerosis (MS) are clearly visible to others. However, one of my more problematic MS symptoms is largely invisible, especially since I’ve developed strategies to minimize its effect on my functioning. This symptom is cognitive impairment, often referred to as “cognitive fog” or “brain fog.”

Poor memory, difficulty focusing or paying attention, slowed information processing, and challenges in problem-solving can all be manifestations of cognitive fog. This issue is common in MS, affecting up to 65% of those with the condition. Cognitive symptoms can range from mild to severe and can significantly impact daily life, personal relationships, and work performance. I would rate my own challenges as moderate, but on two occasions, I became really concerned.

I will start by describing the two isolated occurrences that really worried me. About five years ago, I was preparing a letter to place in the mail. I had addressed the envelope and placed my return address information sticker on the back — all that was left to do was to add a stamp. This is a simple task that I have completed hundreds of times in my life. But on this particular day, I couldn’t remember where to place the stamp. I knew it needed to go on the upper corner of the envelope, but was it the left or the right side?

This scared me. I couldn’t believe that I wasn’t able to remember. Fortunately, I was able to Google it and correctly place the stamp.

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Then, about six months ago, I was unable to determine which finger my wedding band belonged on. My husband and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary last year, so this task should have been second nature.

I have decreased sensation or mild numbness in my fingers, so I couldn’t “feel” which finger was correct. Plus, it was winter, so I didn’t have a tan line. Once again, the internet solved my problem.

I am happy these types of memory lapses don’t occur frequently, but they are concerning to me.

More commonly, I have short-term memory lapses. One example is not remembering someone’s name several minutes after being introduced. Sometimes I don’t even recognize someone I’ve just met.

There are also times when I cannot recall a recent conversation. I’ll wonder, “Did we really talk about this?” If someone verbally requests something of me at work, I ask them to send me an email so I have it in writing and won’t forget to respond.

Another strategy I’ve found helpful in addressing my forgetfulness is carrying a small notebook (one in my work bag and one in my purse) so I can write down everything important in my professional and personal life. Post-it notes are my best friend; I probably use 15-20 every day at work so I don’t forget my thoughts and things I need to accomplish.

I also use technology to keep me organized. I put everything in my Outlook Calendar and color-code professional and personal appointments to ensure I don’t miss any meetings. I use the Microsoft To Do app to keep track of all my work projects and due dates.

My boss has been very understanding of my cognitive limitations. I am now assigned to committees whose work can be completed over short periods of time. My boss realizes that I will be less productive and efficient if my projects require knowledge or information recall over long periods. I feel fortunate to have these accommodations so that I can still be a productive and helpful colleague.

I have discussed my cognitive issues with my neurologist, and it is something we are monitoring. She recommended getting at least eight hours of good-quality sleep each night, as tiredness can worsen cognition.

I have also read that brain games can help sharpen cognitive skills. I particularly enjoy Wordle and Word Crush.

Cognitive fog is one of the more challenging symptoms associated with my MS, but I am developing effective ways to cope and maintain my quality of life. My goal is to keep this symptom invisible to others for as long as possible.


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Julie avatar

Julie

Hello. Thank you for discussing Brain Fog. I have similar experiences and I worry that I will become confused while driving. I do not want to discuss this with my doctor. Have you have experienced this. Luckily I live in a small town and do not drive very far.

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Carol R Groff avatar

Carol R Groff

I sympathize. Today I tried to clean my eyeglasses with Spray N Wash instead of lens cleaner. It did not work very well.

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Kathy Allen avatar

Kathy Allen

Thank you for writing this article. I've had MS for 51 years. I think that the cognitive fog started out so gradually for me that I almost didn't notice? Now periodically when starting to speak & I've lost where I was going, scary - not wanting to acknowledge what is happening. You're fortunate to have a neurologist that you can speak to about this & a boss. Because of reasons our MS clinic which is for the province has lost doctors & so I now have a nurse practitioner, she's made a comment that makes me afraid to share.
Good to hear what persons may use to help,I may try magnesium threonate again (it made me very tired or was it simply MS?).
Again, thank you for writing this story, it mad me feel not as alone.

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Rosanne Costain avatar

Rosanne Costain

First thing is - I wish you well. I'm in year 39 and I get no treatment since I became too old to volunteer for drug studies. However, the best thing I ever got was the angioplasty. They opened up the artery on my right side and within 3 months the brain fog was gone, I stopped slurring my words and my foot shuffle was almost gone.
Not a cure, but it might help a lot of people. Of the people I know who went to Seattle, Los Angeles and even Bulgaria to have it done are glad they did.

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David A. Wynsen

One of my many M.S. symptoms that is most frustrating for me is my unreliable SHORT-term memory. By contrast, I can clearly remember my wedding day, my college graduations, the births of my adult children, and similar. But if you ask me what I did 15 mins ago, you might have to wait for an answer, but eventually I will get there. My memories occurred in a certain order (of course), but my ‘playback’ can unravel in a sometimes random order. I call this ‘Biological Random Access Memory,’ or BioRam, or humorously, my ‘untethered’ RAM! I’m lucky that my amazing bride (of >50 yrs) is understanding and patient…..and has a sense of humor. The latter is a foundation for understanding, empathy, and playfulness where playfulness is a loud source actual emotional support as — odd as that might sound.

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emma borley

So helpful reading this! I’ve just been diagnosed w progressive ms (only diagnosed w ms two years ago) and my memory is now so shocking I can’t remember what I’ve had for lunch / names etc but your tips really useful! Have a great day 🧚🏼‍♂️

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JP avatar

JP

I have issues with cog fog as well and scared myself on occasion. I started taking 1,200mg daily lion’s mane capsules and it's definitely improved my cognitive function. Worth a shot.

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Murray Suid avatar

Murray Suid

This piece was very helpful and inspiring. The note about word games is especially useful. We'd be interested in other games that you find helpful.

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Tina Butts avatar

Tina Butts

I've had MS for about 35+ years. Recently I started having trouble remembering things so I started to rethink my approach to things, such as driving to a familiar place. I go over the route in my mind first before I start, its helped alot. I try not to get discouraged and try to keep positive thoughts about my condition. God bless us all 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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