How Army terms help orient me, even today
A mnemonic from my military past fits my multiple sclerosis present
If I haven’t warned you that bits of my past in the military would sometimes leak into my present as a Multiple Sclerosis News Today columnist, consider yourself warned. I was in the U.S. Army for almost 22 years, so it’s bound to happen occasionally.
If I’d become an archaeologist, as I’d wanted in the third grade, you’d have to endure me making comparisons between multiple sclerosis (MS) and mummies. If I’d been a proctologist, I’d be comparing MS with — well, you get the picture. Instead, when something in my life with this disease presents an issue, I often fall back on what I know for the solution.
In my short time writing these columns, I’ve introduced you to several of the abbreviations and acronyms that once helped me remember key components of tactical operations. This column offers another, this time referring to the variables that must be taken into account when planning a mission. Multiple sclerosis and its symptoms are nothing if not variable, so this term seems to work almost as though it were intended for my life today.
The mnemonic, somewhat a blend of acronym and abbreviation, is METT-TC, pronounced met-tee-see. For some strange reason I have an extra easy time remembering it. METT-TC stands for Mission, Enemy, Terrain (and weather), Troops (and support) available, Time available, and Civilians. Indulge me, please, as I go through each variable with MS in mind.
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Breaking down a tactical aid
Mission: I was about to write that my mission is to get through each day with multiple sclerosis, but that sounds as if all I want to do is survive. Some days it certainly feels that way, but my goal is to thrive. My mission should be to live my life with intention rather than merely trying to make it to tomorrow. I can’t promise that I’ll succeed every single time, but I’m sure going to try, and I think you should, too.
Enemy: The obvious enemy is MS, but there are others as well, and they include me. I might be my own best advocate, but sometimes I can be my own worst enemy, too. If anyone can talk me out of thriving, it’s me.
I generally don’t like to think of other people as my enemy. Even when they’re obstacles, it seems to be unwitting. However, I might make an exception for the person who made the effort to squeeze their car into the no-parking zone between my van and the curb. I feel that simultaneously blocking my ramp and the ramp onto the sidewalk is a little malicious.
Terrain: Terrain and weather affect everything I do and are always considerations. Even before I used a wheelchair, I had to take hills, stairs, tall curbs, and uneven surfaces into account when planning anything. If rain is in the forecast, I cannot just run back to the car. If it’s hot, I have to take extra steps to combat it.
Troops: Fortunately for me, I have top-notch troops and support available. My wife is my primary caregiver, and my kids open doors, move obstacles, and spot accessible parking spots and ramps. I consider my healthcare team to be my support element, and I couldn’t ask for better.
Time: I’d say that the time to complete a mission when you have multiple sclerosis is “as long as it takes,” but that isn’t realistic. With MS, time is energy, and I seem to have an extremely variable supply. It isn’t “as long as it takes” anymore; it’s “until I run out.”
Civilians: In our case, these are people without MS or who have no connection to it. They might be helpful. They might not be. Either way, they have to be accounted for without necessarily being counted on. You don’t have to plan on everyone else being a hindrance, but “somebody will probably step up and do that for me” can’t be a part of the plan, either.
Thank you for wading through another column where I try to apply lessons from my past to my present. Just know I’ll probably do it again.
Next week, I have the privilege of attending the Consortium of Multiple Sclerosis Centers annual meeting as part of the Paralyzed Veterans of America Multiple Sclerosis Committee. If you’re going to be there, stop by our booth and say hello.
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Comments
Anna
Thanks Ben, I love this mnemonic. I think I'm going to use it, going to another city tomorrow for 3 days. I'll use this approach to make it the most of this trip!
Benjamin Hofmeister
Thank you for reading it Anna!
Dee
Great article, I could really relate, thank you!
Benjamin Hofmeister
No, thank you for reading it Dee!
Cheryl Conway
Benjamin. I just wanted to thank-you for writing and sharing your column, it really spoke to me. It's nice to read the words that I often think about but unable to write, let alone speak, as eloquently as you.
Benjamin Hofmeister
You are so welcome Cheryl! Eloquent?? You should see my column before it goes through editing. lol
Liza
Thank you for sharing your tools. Where did I put the tool box again?
From a second generation MS Army brat
Benjamin Hofmeister
Thanks for the comment Liza. I haven't figured out how to keep track of the toolbox either.
Lisa
It is difficult to describe the “Many Situations” that come in to play with this disease, without sounding like complaining constantly, but you did it ! Thank you !
Benjamin Hofmeister
Thanks Lisa! Believe me, I complain plenty. lol