Divide and Conquer: Bravery in the Face of the Coronavirus
I don’t know if you’ve heard or not, but there’s this coronavirus thing going around. And it is disrupting everything from concerts and conferences to schools and my kids’ recreation sports leagues.
Don’t get me wrong, as a person who lives with multiple sclerosis (MS) and is therefore immunocompromised, I’m thrilled that people are taking steps to flatten the curve. However, it has made things a lot more interesting and challenging around our house.
My husband and I are both working from home with all the difficulties that brings, and both our kids are home from school with work to do. I set up a “school room” for them, complete with laptops, paper, and supplies to do their assignments. I have to take pictures of completed work and email it to their teachers so they get credit. I’m doing all this between my own meetings and tasks, so my brain is well and truly fried from having to switch gears so many times. (Oh, and my husband had to go in for a nerve blocker in his back first thing this morning, so there was that, too.)
But you know what? I made it through. We all did. Sure, my kids ate pizza rolls for lunch, but I hardly think they’ll fail to thrive because of that.
I’ve been re-reading “The Chronicles of Narnia” books the past month or so as I finish up my fellowship with the C.S. Lewis Institute, and while it’s far from a perfect book, I have to say that I found “The Horse and His Boy” to be kind of delightful. It’s a sweet story, a little bildungsroman filled with great characters and a beautifully simple narrative in which good defeats evil and everyone lives happily ever after.
As usual, the book contains several great “Lewis Lines,” as I’ve come to call them. One of the best is: “Do not dare not to dare.” Aslan the lion says this to Bree the talking horse when he tells him to touch his paws, mane, and tail to see that he is indeed a beast.
What a great way of describing the importance of bravery — whether the thing you’re facing is the coronavirus, MS, or a pile of work that comes with juggling multiple roles. Today I was an editor, a teammate, a mother, a teacher, a caregiver, and a few other things that I’m too tired to remember at the moment. While I didn’t do all of them perfectly, I did my best. That’s all anyone can ask for, especially when so much is up in the air (and we’re all fighting for toilet paper for some reason?).
If there’s anything living with MS has taught me, it’s that you can’t live life well and be afraid of it at the same time. It’s all about getting up and getting on with things, which requires some huevos as they say. That’s a message we all need right now, and MS patients are just the right folks to share it with the world.
Take care of yourselves, friends. Stay safe. Wash your hands early and often, and take time to connect with others. After all, just because we’re socially distancing doesn’t mean we’re alone. Just look at what Italy is up to!
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You are juggling so much more than me; my children are all grown up now and in their separate homes. I can only imagine how stressful this would be if they were still at home and in school. Thank you for a peek inside your world.
The first week was rough, but we're hoping this week proves smoother and more manageable. We'll be pros by the time all this is over!
I loved your article and message! My husband and I are working from home because of COVID. I have MS and told him, stop worrying, we can be careful, but we need to enjoy each day!
Well said, ma’am. Well said, indeed.
Retired & ‘sheltering in place’ could have proved worse- I am the central coordinator for our new church charities & the Personnel Chair for our growing church staff - this means I am ‘putting out fires’ metaphorically with texts from 10-50 people daily. I was placed in these central roles because I was the old person who knew how to ‘use technology’ (checking email on my phone!) - that & reworking my garden are keeping me sane at home. CS Lewis does have the most quotable lines, I think! I also think it helps to share inside stories with each other
The phrase “inside story” has a whole new meaning now, doesn’t it?!