A Look Around the Terminal

A Look Around the Terminal

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It’s spring — at least, it’s supposed to be — so getting stuck at the airport due to snow was the last thing I expected during a recent trip to Grand Rapids, Michigan. But that’s exactly what happened to me on Sunday. I sat with thousands of fellow passengers, all of us stranded and desperately wanting to be somewhere else. (Time seemed to stop, and as a Stephen King fan, I couldn’t help but imagine that a few Langoliers were on the way to gobble us all up!)

The 10-hour delay gave me a lot of time to look around and people watch, and though I know it has always been the case, this past weekend was the first time I noticed just how many people were carrying medication or other medical equipment. As an MS patient, one who is differently abled, I know the stress of such a thing. Traveling with needles and an ice pack usually means I’m going to be pulled out, patted down, and swabbed for chemicals. It guarantees that I’ll have to stand by helplessly as my carry-on luggage is pawed through by someone in a blue uniform. (And let me tell you, nothing brings a person down a peg faster than having her unmentionables waved around by a TSA agent.)

I’ve always known I’m not the only person who endures such things when traveling, but the truth of it hit me afresh as I watched people sit in wheelchairs for hours on end. I saw some folks taking medication out of meticulously organized pill containers. Others were meditating and caring for their mental health. I came across several glucose test strips in the bathroom and even helped a woman carry and re-ice a cooler full of cancer medication. No fuss, no complaints from anyone as far as I could tell. For those of us with medical challenges, seeing to our illnesses was just one more thing to do during the long wait. Business as usual. Keep on keeping on. Nothing new under the sun. So it goes.

Sometimes, when you have multiple sclerosis, it can feel like you’re the only one in the world who’s suffering, but that’s far from the truth. There are millions of people out there dealing with serious medical issues, and though their battles may look different from ours, it makes them no less difficult. And being in that airport proved to me that each of us isn’t just bearing up under the weight of our respective conditions; we’re getting up and going places. No less heroic than “The Charge of the Light Brigade,” that bravery needs to be mentioned and applauded.

During that long stretch in Gerald R. Ford International Airport, I saw many examples of courage: people who refused to let their illnesses keep them from living life and who, though they faced a few more hurdles than the average passenger, were enjoying their journeys. Before boarding the plane that would take me home, I said a prayer for all the warriors — both seen and unseen — asking God to make their waiting short and their valor boundless.

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On a separate (yet related) note, at the conference I attended, I heard a wonderful conversation between Kate Bowler, author of “Everything Happens for a Reason (And Other Lies I’ve Loved),” and Kerry Egan, author of “On Living.” Bowler is facing stage 4 cancer (and shared some horror stories about traveling with chemo). Egan is a hospice chaplain. Both were honest and hilarious, and the conversation — though hard in places — was so very life-giving. I purchased both books and highly recommend them!

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6 comments

  1. Karen says:

    Thank you, Jamie. I needed to hear this today as I sit in a Miami hotel having a pity party because after two attempts at injecting my meds, I gave up. Feeling defeated and frustrated, but putting my positive attitude on now!

    • Jamie Hughes says:

      Karen, I know how hard that can be, especially when you’re out of your routine and sleeping in a strange place. Everything about MS is hard and inconvenient and frustrating, but we still have to keep on keeping on. I see you in your struggle, and I love you more than words. You’re not defeated. You’re a freakin’ warrior queen, and you got this!

  2. Lulueliane says:

    I love traveling, but I had such a big aggravation of my SP 48 hours after a trip by plane, vomiting, vertigo… . I do not know if it happened to other people, but trips are over for me, I miss It. Good travels for you

    • Jamie Hughes says:

      Lulueliane, I can only imagine having to deal with all that. I am so sorry that that happened to you! (I’ve had a few symptoms, but nothing that extreme.) Maybe long physical trips are out of the questions, but you can still choose your own adventure in the corner of the world you call home. Good travel is all a state of mind, right? 🙂 May whatever journey you take on next be a pleasant and restorative one, my friend.

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