How I Plan to Have a Cracking Christmas With MS

As an adult, it hasn’t been easy for me to get into the Christmas spirit. Planning festivities and buying gifts don’t come naturally to me.

Perhaps it’s because adult life never ends, whereas as a student, I had holiday breaks that signified the beginning of the season, allowing me to simply switch off my mind. My school even held a beautiful, ethereal carol service at the largest church in the county on the last day of the semester.

Particularly since my relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis diagnosis in 2016, I’ve felt a distinct lack of excitement in the lead-up to the holidays.

It feels like a lifetime since I was thrown into MS headfirst. Within two years of my diagnosis, I was paralyzed from the waist down and underwent the aggressive treatment Lemtrada (alemtuzumab). But it’s only been four Christmases, which isn’t a lot of time to perfect navigating the holidays with MS and severe fatigue.

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Finding Peace During the Holidays

Honing my holiday strategy

Every Christmas, I take a different approach to try to find the best way to accommodate my new reality.

My husband and I really wanted to host a family Christmas, especially after we bought our first house. However, the thought of making our home visitor-friendly, preparing a delicious Christmas lunch, and organizing other meals was overwhelming. So, last Christmas, we compromised by having my husband’s parents stay at our house and then going to a nearby restaurant for our Christmas Day meal.

I’ve had many a Christmas meal out, and have found that the quality tends to be at either end of the spectrum. In this case, the meal was unfortunately disappointing, especially because I had to leave shortly after the main course was served. The hustle and bustle of the season left me more fatigued than usual, and I was overwhelmed by the noise of the surrounding guests and the stark contrast of going from the bitter December frost into the restaurant’s heat. It all left me teetering on the edge of a sensory overload attack.

Luckily, I had my mobility scooter, and since the restaurant was within walking distance of our house, I was able to escape without ruining anyone else’s meal. As I unlocked my front door and entered my quiet, empty house, MS isolation prevailed once again. While quiet was exactly what I needed, it certainly wasn’t what I wanted.

This year, I’ve pledged that things will be different. While I employed all of my fatigue management tactics leading up to Christmas last year, I’m adding one more this season: not worrying or stressing about things I can’t control. Will it snow, affecting my mobility outdoors? Who knows. Will I burn the food because I’m overheating and forget about the time? Well, that’s why my husband’s cooking!

It may only be Dec. 7, but it’s officially the holiday season in our house. The tree goes up as I indulge in my advent calendar chocolates and binge-watch cheesy Netflix Christmas movies.

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