How I’m Staying on Top of MS’ Many ‘Gifts’

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When I was finally diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2009, my first question to my neurologist was, “Will I end up in a wheelchair?”

She patted this question back with the generic, “You may, but no one knows the course that anyone’s MS might take.”

Later, I learned that late-onset MS tends to be more aggressive than other forms. I was 49 when I was diagnosed. Still, this research came later.

What I wasn’t told then, and haven’t been told much since, are details of the ancillary problems that MS throws at us. In nearly four years as a patient columnist, I’ve written about them all. But this week, I seem to be on top of them.

Let’s see, shall we?


I started using catheters in January 2011, after I had a horrendous time while staying at a friend’s house.

OK, a lot of wine might have been drunk. But I spent the night in the bathroom with agonizing dribbles. My wife drove us home the next morning while I sat in the back of the car using an improvised wee bottle. I believe it was some kind of plastic food container.

A year later, I was carted off to my local hospital with a urinary tract infection (UTI). I had a high fever and couldn’t move. I had no idea what was happening. We live in London, but my wife was in South Wales, visiting her terminally ill auntie, and my eldest son was at work. He had to come home to let the ambulance in.

Of course, UTIs are commonplace with self-catheterization, as there are many chances to introduce infections into the bladder. But no one had told me. Strict hygiene then followed, which made some difference until my recent disease-modifying therapies, alemtuzumab and ocrelizumab, ganged up to destroy my immune system. This left me with a biofilm in my bladder

Thankfully, I’ve since found a urologist who accepts what’s happening and has prescribed a treatment for it: antibiotic nitrofurantoin at double the regular prophylactic dose. When I have an exacerbation (that’s a UTI, folks), I revert to the full antibiotic dose. My last one lasted a month.

Prior to this, I went through every test my local hospital’s urologist could throw at me, only to be told I had a clear bladder, and to be complimented on my catheter technique.

Luckily, I was happy to go off-piste at this point. This took me to the world of phage therapy, and then, thanks to a very clued-in urology nurse, to my present regimen. It is the first time in years that I’ve actually been in control of my UTI situation.

And before I finish, MS also affects the bottom. I was introduced to the world of anal catheters by my wonderful local MS nurse just over a year ago. It’s taken some time to adjust to them, but in the last few weeks, my life (and my family’s) sure has gotten a lot easier.

Trigeminal neuralgia

This neuropathic nerve pain, which usually occurs in the mouth and face, can affect anybody, but it is more prevalent among the MS clan. It first smacked me down about two and a half years ago. Again, I had no idea what it was. I thought trigeminal neuralgia had won last December, but I seem to have found an answer for now.

It is even more debilitating than being in a wheelchair.


This swelling in my lower limbs started when I was walking, swimming, and playing wheelchair tennis. When I was forced into a wheelchair, it went gangbusters. It turns out that most lymphedema clinics in the U.K. are aimed at cancer patients. But guess who made a fuss and got into one?

The clinic staff told me they think MS causes lymphedema. A column I wrote about edema received a high number of responses, which indicates I may have struck a tubby nerve.

I experience other issues, such as my neuropathic right arm. But a reaction like this is hardly a surprise with MS. The upside is that some of the medications I’m taking for trigeminal neuralgia also work for my arm. Boy, has that arm quietened down!


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Wendy Hovey avatar

Wendy Hovey

John, I would love to say something positive, but I don't want to jinx you! Know that I'm thinking it.

John Connor avatar

John Connor

Ah, yes. My suggested title was 'Am I On Top Of My Many MS Presents - Maybe This Week!'.

I'm with u Sister. x

Peggy avatar


Well I will try again to leave comment! Have experienced these (except catheters so far) for the UTI
Issues take the Nitrofuration Every day. This is not something urology Dr. Wants but thabks to MS Dr. I can get constant refills! Same for Trigurmal Nerve pain, which at monent is kicking left jaw now.
Take antisezure med Oxcarbapzine and Gapentine twice q day (if can 1 Gabapentin as caused feet/legs to swell). The best relief for TNP was shots of BOTOX in my jaw. Of course insurance won't cover as it's considered optional and cosmetic...but not these! He did them anyway on his own dime! Instant and long lasting RELIEF

John Connor avatar

John Connor

Hi Peggy

I OK'd a comment on Sat - that has disappeared from my system- if it was u, sorry but I did try! If so ta for writing again.

Never heard of Botox for TG relief!! Was this u're own idea?

Cheers John

Jennifer Sand Bodurtha avatar

Jennifer Sand Bodurtha

I have had MS for 33 years and several UTIs. Try cranberry extract/capsules. Haven't had any UTIs for quite a while!

John Connor avatar

John Connor

Hi Jennifer

I'm glad u don't suffer the horrors of an entrenched UTI.

U may have recovered but I'm afraid Cranberries had nothing to do with it. Give this article a glance:

If only things were that easy!

Cheers John


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